Night Owls Smart, Morning Glories Happy?

Wake UpI remember as a kid staying overnight at my grandparents’ house during the summers. The days always seemed to start out with the two of them getting up at (what seemed to me) a ridiculously early hour. They’d sip black coffee and chat and my grandma would fry up some bacon and scramble an egg for my cousin and I when we finally rolled out of bed well after the sun had said it’s good mornings and roosters had crowed their songs.

“The early bird gets the worm!”

they’d say…or

“Early to bed early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.”

As intelligent as the two of them were and as much as I wish it was a joy for me to get up at 5:00am, this study researching circadian type or “diurnal preference” has left me feeling vindicated, to a degree, regarding my tendency towards late nights and mornings. Indicating the contrary of the old adage, the article seems to say that people who stay up late and sleep in are, in fact, a bit more intelligent. Did you really need proof in the form of a scientific study to show that you that night-owls are smarter? Yah, neither did I.

However, this study does say that “morningness” has a significant positive correlation with life satisfaction and I can definitely agree that I feel better and more productive when I get up early and get my day started with the sun (and a cup of caffeine).

So, what does all that tell us? Not much other than there are lots of studies out there looking into all sorts of things you’d never have expected. Interesting, to be sure – helpful, maybe not?

So, life satisfaction-wise and intelligence-wise, who do you think wins? Night owls or morning glories?

I’d love to stick around and see what you all have to say, but none of your answers will change the fact that it’s 10pm and my alarm is set for 4:45am tomorrow. Wonder what  forced early-rising is correlated with? I’m speculating a positive correlation with amount of caffeine consumed prior to 10am.

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On Planning

55040y5wjnxzcuuI often see women around here questioning when others think would be the best time in medical training to have a baby. The most common answer is that there is never a good time, but that there are times that are worse than others (like right before Step 1 or the middle of intern year, for example).

Basically, the general consensus is to weigh your options and go for it when you decide you’re ready, while hoping the rest falls into place. Understandable, since you never really know what life could bring – infertility, job changes, the collapse of medicine as we know it.

Not understandable because, let’s face it, we’re medical students and doctors – we didn’t get to this point in our life by just going for anything…we planned. I have yet to find a person in this field who doesn’t appreciate a game of “What If…”

What if I fail out? What if I forget my pencil? What if my computer breaks? What if I get stuck in one city for 4 days and my luggage was on another flight? What if I need 35 pairs of underwear on my 2 day trip?

Don’t act like you haven’t done it. Do you really think we believe you put that many pairs of underwear in your bag without thinking about all the reasons you might get stuck in Seattle for 6 extra days?

A lot of us plan…some to a fault…we plan our days, our weeks and our years. Sure, they rarely turn out as we planned, but the simple act of having a plan can be calming to some of us (and by us I do not mean me…this is purely theoretical).

I recently ran across an old-er post in the MomMD forums talking about predictors for one’s ability to manage motherhood and medicine. As many before her had done, she was helping others to plan if (and when) they should have a baby in medical school or residency.

According to the insightful poster there were certain…

Positive Predictors:

  • Flexible Husband (we’re talking work schedules and personality, people)
  • Bonus points if flexible hubby is a stay-at-home dad
  • Family Nearby
  • Desire to go into a family friendly field
  • Few commitments outside of family & medicine

And also some particular…

Negative Predictors:

  • Husband in the medical field
  • Child with special needs or chronic illness
  • Being a gunner
  • Desire to go into things like Surgery

She’s much more eloquent at explaining her ideas, so I urge you to take a look at the original post and replies.

So, are you a planner? How has it helped or hurt you in your medical training? What do you think are the best predictors of managing a career in medicine without neglecting your family? How have you managed? What adjustments did you make? What helped or hurt your efforts?


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Do or Don’t: Monthly Breast Self-Exams?

It was 2004 – I was barely 18 years old and enjoying my first year of college at Texas A&M University. As I headed to a Psychology class through the Student Center on a beautiful October day I was handed a colorful plastic shower hanger for my dorm room. It was Breast Cancer Awareness month and the water proof hanger was designed with eye-catching colors and graphics to describe step-by-step how to do monthly self breast exams. The back quoted literature and websites indicating how important self-exams were.

Breast Exam My Nana was around 57 years old at the time and about to start her 3rd battle with breast cancer, one she would ultimately lose around a year later. I was so proud of the women for handing these out – doing something proactive to help young people detect breast cancer early. They were supporting early detection and promoting breast cancer awareness with action instead of words – saving lives one shower-hanger at a time. Or they thought they were – that was their goal, an admirable endeavor to be sure.

But, were they really?

Although I didn’t know who she was before last week, the recent news of Giuliana Rancic’s breast cancer diagnosis at the young age of 37 caught my eye. My interest in Fertility Medicine drew me in to learn more about her heartbreaking story and, from the media coverage of her diagnosis, it’s drawn in a slew of others as well.

In addition to attracting a very large group of supporters and well-wishers, the news has also prompted Rancic and an array of media outlets to remind women to do their monthly self-breast exams because, as many of them say and as most think, “early detection saves lives.” This recommendation is continually repeated by news outlets covering her story, despite the fact that self-exam played no part in Rancic’s diagnosis.

Self-exam has traditionally been touted as a method of early detection to improve outcomes in those with breast cancer, but recent literature has suggested that breast self-exams do not improve outcomes and may actually have some negative impact on the women who do them. This research was apparently so convincing that the U.S. Preventative Services Task Force currently recommends against it at a Grade D, indicating that harm outweighs benefit.

So, have we all really just been using self breast exams as a method of making ourselves feel better – like we’re in control of a situation we have no control over?

Do you do a monthly self-exam? Have you or someone you know ever detected a lump? Tell us your story – do you feel it did more harm than good? As a physician, do you still recommend self-exams to your female patients?

I’m so interested in everyone’s stories and opinions on this subject!

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Sharing Medical Info via Social Networks

 

From a friend’s Facebook status:

“Times have definitely changed. Filling out my son’s paperwork for a well check with his new pediatrician & there’s a spot for your Facebook or Twitter account to receive non urgent info about the patient!”

We are clearly moving in the direction of social media and digital information, so I would love to hear your thoughts on the following (answers should assume consent from both parent and physician to use this type of interaction for non-urgent medical information):

  • Is it legal?
  • What about ethical?
  • What considerations would be required regarding this interaction?
  • What about privacy and security issues*?
  • Would all these considerations be a problem if there’s been consent from all parties?

And most importantly…

  • As a parent or patient, would you consent to transferring non-urgent medical information this way?
  • What about as a physician or other healthcare provider?

 
*To play devil’s advocate, what makes these interactions any less safe than “snail-mailing” non-urgent info? Theoretically, can’t almost anyone open your mailbox and mail? Doesn’t snail-mail go through way more hands to get to someone than email? What makes them any less secure than cell phone voicemails? We learned from this incident that cell phone hacking is incredibly easy if you know the right people and technology. What do you think the differences are?

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Bachmann Earned Wakefield’s Vote

Last week my husband was watching the CNN Republican debate in our bedroom as I sorted articles of clothing from my overflowing closet into trash and donate piles. When I caught a second between “what was I thinking when I bought this” and “have I ever even worn that” thoughts I half-listened in to the comments coming from the TV. However, when Minnesota’s 6th district representative started talking about my state and the HPV vaccine she managed to recruit my undivided attention. Koilocytes

Once Michele Bachmann’s statements crossed the line between executive orders and entered the territory of science and health care it was obvious to anyone that she was out of her league. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know that anecdotal statements and political figures are not acceptable sources of medical or scientific advice.

Her statements at the debate were so deep in propaganda and “innocent little girl” statements that even Herman and Chomsky weren’t sure if we were still discussing recipients of a vaccine or had moved on to victims of kidnapping and cults.

But, then she fully strayed from politics and went on to say really bizarre things about the vaccine, like that it caused mental retardation. It hasn’t been officially confirmed, but I heard she won over Andrew Wakefield’s vote with that one.

However, despite the outright ridiculous nature of her statements, I’m trying to look on the bright side of her blatant disregard for research and reality.

Representative Bachmann has ignited a conversation about the HPV vaccine that has been quiet for some time. In the past week there has been an array of positive and factual information written about the HPV vaccine. My Twitter feed and blog roll has been inundated with information from people of much more qualified backgrounds regarding the purpose, safety and relative risks of this vaccine. If you want some quick, basic information with lots of sources in graphic format check out David McCandless’ infographic.

Here’s the thing – the group of people who would tend to take what Ms. Bachmann says to heart are those who are less likely to be discussing the HPV vaccine in the first place. While the conversation may have been ignited for the wrong reasons – inaccurate information from an unqualified source – maybe parents will at least bring this up with their child’s provider now. Or maybe they will happen upon one of the great news articles or blogs written on the subject since Bachmann took her bizarre stance on the vaccine.

The more liberal parents probably don’t believe anything out of her mouth anyway, so I’m not really concerned about it affecting their likelihood of choosing to to vaccinate against HPV.

Your view on the pros and cons of the HPV vaccine are just that – yours. The choice to vaccinate or not vaccinate against HPV is a choice to be made by parents and their teenagers with appropriate resources.

There are not many things in medicine that can actually prevent cancer, but the Hepatitis C and HPV vaccines can. I encourage using reliable sources to come up with your own views on if this vaccine is necessary. I hope that parents know the realities of HPV and cervical cancer and understand the proven benefits and side effects of the vaccine.

In the end, I’d ask that Michele Bachmann and other politicians refrain from spreading lies about potentially life-saving medical interventions for their own perceived gain. However, if they are going to continue to do it, which they most certainly are, I hope that we can use these types of statements as a reason to put factual information into the hands of those who need it.

Reliable Information on the HPV Vaccine:

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Reframing

I am a medical student, my time is not my own. After this I will be an intern and my time will still not belong to me After that I will be a resident who does not control my own time. When I’m a physician my time may be a little more decided by me, but it won’t be entirely flexible by any means.
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I am also a wife and an obsessive planner and in my mid-20s, so having kids is something I’ve thought a little about, to say the least.

So, who’s going to take care of these kids if I have them?

I mean, considering all that talk about my time not being my own and stuff.

Daycare? But won’t I feel so guilty when I drop them off at daycare every single day? That’s what a lot of the world implies I will feel…or should feel, at least.

My mom used to drop me off at day care everyday. She was a nurse. I don’t feel abandoned or sad about that. I don’t feel like she was an absent parent. In fact, just the opposite. She is an amazing parent and is, in addition to a wonderful mother, one of my very best friends. Did she feel guilty when she dropped me off at daycare every morning? Was she able to understand that daycare was not only beneficial to me and my social learning, but was the reason she got to “have it all,” so to say – a career she was passionate about and a family she loved?

A recent article on PsychologyToday caught my attention. The article discussed these guilty feelings parents often have and how to reframe those thoughts to ensure the events are being viewed through a clear lens and not one clouded by jaded statements or subconscious ideas.

Like a new picture frame, she says, you need to look at the picture of your situation from all its facets. The author, Dr. Joanne Stern, writes

“Often you can’t change the situation itself (the picture), but if you change your thinking and your perspective about the situation (the frame), the whole situation looks and feels different.”

Essentially, take the facts of the situation and frame it with reality or optimism, not guilt.

I really encourage all of you with kids or who are considering having kids to read this article. It’s a quick read and it’s very eye-opening as far as reframing a situation goes. I think it’s applicable across the board, actually – not just in the realm of kids and daycare.

How do my MomMD friends handle this? Do you feel guilty leaving your child at a daycare while you work? Does the fact that you love your job help alleviate this? Or perhaps you hate your job, but feel like you can’t quit, how do you handle that? Thoughts?

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Avoiding Penicillin Potatoes

If your refrigerator looks anything like mine on any given Sunday you might find something along the lines of Penicillin Potatoes and Gastroenteritis Gumbo with a side of whatthebobbyflayisthat on the leftover shelf. My husband and I have a bad habit of cooking way too much food (it is hard to cook for two people…everything Refrigeratorcomes in fours!) and subsequently leaving our left overs in the fridge long enough to make Oscar the Grouch turn up his nose.

We are proud budgeters, my husband and I, we keep track of our money to the penny and do everything we can to spend it efficiently while attempting to save a bit after our tithes and necessary expense. However, we got into the awful habit of throwing away what is probably a ridiculously large amount of money’s worth of spoiled food every couple of weeks. Here’s how we’ve been attempting to solve our funky fridge food problem.

Log Your Leftovers

  Using Excel I made a Leftover Log to put on our fridge. Everything that goes into the icebox as leftovers gets recorded and we are making it our life goal to consume said leftovers before they go bad, usually within a few days of being refrigerated or a few weeks of being frozen.

Leftover Log

  This has cut down on the amount of food we throw away tremendously! Seriously, this little sheet has been pivotal in reducing our wastefullness. It is really helpful to have such an easily visible reminder of the food you need to consume first. We did notice quickly, though, that we don’t keep up with it accurately unless a pen is literally hanging with the log on the fridge door. So, if you are going to use the leftover log, attach your pens accordingly.

Here’s the log as a printable .pdf and an excel file to download and edit to fit your needs.

Get Your Creative On

  Another pivotal change in our leftover use has been realizing that we don’t have to eat leftovers as the exact same meal with a little added mushy staleness. We found that creatively integrating leftovers into exciting meals helps us use up the food without feeling like we’re eating the same thing three days in a row.

  Left over porkchops cut into small pieces, thrown in a hot skillet with a little oil & garlic plus a fresh chopped tomato, green chile and jalapeno pepper (or a can of Rotel if you prefer) becomes Spicy Pork Tacos. When everything is all mixed up and ready to go top it with some grated Colby Jack in a warm tortilla et voila! – (QUICK!) delicious dinner. If there’s still some left after our second dinner, as there occasionally will be, I’ll take it to the hospital with me and eat it over salad for lunch.

  If I’m making Mexican rice for a meal I like to make a large batch and freeze the leftovers in individual ziplocks for a quick addition to things like Leftover Spicy Pork Tacos. The baggies of rice hold up well in the freezer for a long time, thaw relatively quickly and taste fabulous heated up in a cast iron skillet.

  Leftover grilled chicken shredded in pieces & mixed with a little mayo, lime juice and pickle relish makes a fabulous fresh chicken salad.

  

What’s your favorite way to use leftovers?! How do my MomMD readers make sure they aren’t wasting all their money by letting leftovers spoil?

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In Good Times & In Bad – Married In Medical School

“What is it like being married in medical school?”

My response is usually the same – it’s really fine, but I don’t have anything to compare it to since I was married before I began the process of forgetting basic math, spelling & grammar in order to make room for the Kreb’s Cycle, mechanism of action of
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and 22q11 deletions. However, I do understand where the question comes from and I remember being a wee little undergrad (see what I did there? now you think I’m old enough and wise enough to talk about the “youngsters”…truth is I still get carded trying to buy sharpies and my advice on marriage and medical school is barely 2 years in the making) and thinking I couldn’t possibly get married until after medical school, because it would just be far too demanding to do at once.

The reality is…it’s really not. I mean, it is demanding. Medical school is demanding. Marriage is demanding. Buying a house, moving 10 hours away, saying “I Do,” fleeing the country for a romantic (did I say romantic? What I meant was rainy…) honeymoon and starting medical school all in a 21 day span is demanding…but it’s not so demanding that I would change anything about it.

Assuming you have an understanding, relatively laid back and always supportive spouse (and if you don’t, what are you doing marrying them before jumping into this three-ringed spectacle in the first place?), having someone around to help you out during these years is amazing. Not only is it nice to have emotional support and someone to talk with about things other than cardiomyopathy, it’s also been a blessing to have him to help with do the laundry, buy groceries, cook dinner and pick up the house when I’m fully absorbed in studying for shelf exams.

If I were single, I’d have all that to do by myself…plus I’d have to be on the prowl for a marriage candidate who didn’t mind love with a conditional $200k in educational loans. And my dog would likely be dead, because I’d have let his hair get so long I’d have mistaken him for a dirty rug & put him in the washing machine. And I undoubtedly would have slept outside on at least one of the 15 occasions I locked my keys in my car or let the battery die at the library.

All of that to say, it is certainly possible to maintain your marriage while learning to be a physician. Is it hard? Absolutely, but maintaining a marriage is hard no matter what you’re doing with your career. The biggest factors are going to be the personality and “neediness” of your spouse. There are going to be times when you’re busy and unable to take care of your own basic needs…like eating…and showering…and you need someone next to you who doesn’t mind holding their breath so they don’t have to smell you when they go in for a bear hug.

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My Husband & I in December 2010

I know preparing to embark on this journey we all heard horror stories of how marriages always fall apart in medical school.

Can anyone offer additional views on if this is inherent in the process of medical training or if it has more to do with the actual marriage and the people in it?

I’d love to hear your stories of marriage in medical school or the medical field in general. I think it’s something a lot of people worry about when choosing this as their career.

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I Need A Specialty Choice Equation

NewbornA few weeks back I tweeted something to the effect of “I’m SO excited for my Ob/Gyn rotation, but terrified I’m going to fall in love with it. I don’t want to love Ob/Gyn!” My tweet referenced the underlying fear I harbor of loving a specialty that is demanding or lacks family friendliness. One of the first responses I received was along the lines of “Being miserable every single day at work is not worth choosing a specialty based only on lifestyle.”

The fact of the matter is – Ob/Gyn is tough. The residency is surgical, the hours are long and the lifestyle is suboptimal for people wanting to spend time with their families on a regular basis…babies don’t just decide they will grace us with their presence between the hours of 9am and 4pm and in the absence of your kid’s T-ball game or theater performance.

But…the rewards are huge. You get the opportunity to be a part of life-changing births and pivotal events in people’s lives every single day at work. You are in a unique position to actually prevent cancer with some of the tests that you perform. This specialty allows us, if we choose to take it, the opportunity be an advocate for women at a time when they often feel vulnerable and unable to advocate for themselves.

I still have several rotations to go before I pick a specialty, but I’ve always said I will choose one I’m good at and that I enjoy. Choosing something you hate because it’s a “lifestyle specialty” is far from optimal, but being miserable in a job you love because you miss your family is not exactly ideal either.

So, where do we draw the line? What’s the algorithm? How do you pick a specialty you love and make sure your family can still come first? I’ll be honest – I fully believe I wouldn’t be where I am today if it were not for the people in my life supporting me and, when push comes to shove, they are my priority…they have to be.

I’m not sure where this person, whom I like and respect greatly, got the impression that I was planning to choose my future career based on lifestyle alone, but it made me think. How much should we consider work hours or flexibility when deciding what to do with our lives? Which holds more weight? Which SHOULD hold more weight? Is a specialty you kindoflove with a decent lifestyle more important than a specialty you absolutelylove with conditions like long, unpredictable hours? Is it the other way around?

What do you think MomMD readers?

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