Dear Ayasmom:
The way I see it, where there is a will there is a way. If you are determined and you feel that you are not competitive for entry to med school you could pursue other options. You can try to improve your application by pursuing the options that Theresa has mentioned, many have succeeded using this route. Or you can look at other ways to achieve your goals. Have you considered D.O. schools? If you are still not competitive for D.O. schools then perhaps you might consider going abroad. There are schools in Europe, Australia, South America and the Caribbean that cater to American students i.e. they offer Stafford Loans and clinical rotations in the states. This is just an option, but for many it has represented light at the end of the tunnel.
I studied in the Caribbean, learned a foreign language and am now applying for residency programs this year. So far I have been very happy with the number and quality of interview invitations that I have been getting...I am finally beginning to see that all my years of hard work are beginning to pay off.
Going abroad is not for everyone. Depending on the school you choose to attend, you will not receive the same "quality" education as you might have in the states. This is a sacrifice I was willing to take.
Good luck. Know and weigh your options and you will find your way.
