Hi all-I just joined this site last week on the recommendation of a fellow classmate and am loving it! I am a 40yo woman(almost 41)in my first year of medical school. My husband and I have 6 children, all boys, ranging in age from 11-24. Three of the boys are in college while the others are still home. My situation is rather unique in the fact that I am living away from my family while I am in school. Either my family comes to visit me on weekends or I go there. Though with my crazy study and test schedule, I find it very difficult to get enough time to go home. I miss my boys tremendously but for many reasons (like my husband's job) we decided not to relocate the entire family. I am more than halfway thru my first semester and am surviving pretty well. I am adjusting to living alone which I have never done before!
Going to medical school was something I had always wanted to do and in fact was on the track to do until I discovered I was pregnant with my first child. I knew I could not do both full time and I did not want to miss out on my child's formative first years, so I gave up on the idea. I always had it in my mind to go back but as I got older, my hopes kinda dwindled. A couple of years ago, after much deliberation and with my husband's total support, I decided to go back to school at a community college just to see if I could handle academia again. I must say I loved taking classes so I made up my mind to take the next step. I took an MCAT prep course, took the MCAT, applied, and here I am. Although I am one of the oldest in my class and come from a far different perspective than many of my classmates, I don't regret my decision one bit. I love the learning but hate the cramming for the exams! In retrospect too, I don't think I would have changed the order of my life either(though there are a few experiences that I might have done without).
So that's it in a nutshell. I would love to connect with other moms who are on the same wavelength or in similar situations.
Have a great day!
