My second C-section was elective too, I had no choice due to small pelvis. Doesn't make it any less painful.
So, it wasn't quite elective.
There are pros and cons to both vag birth and c-section. For some women, the risks of one outweigh the risks of the other. You can have your pain up front...or during recovery (or for some, both). Childbirth usually involves some pain...no matter which method you choose.
- I still have scar pain 6 years later.
There are many women who suffer from a multitude of long-term problems after having a vaginal delivery as well.
Isn't it great that some women (along with their doctors) can choose the best option for them?