Huh. What kind of things would a woman say to another? Women should align themselves with other women based solely upon gender? Sounds rather sexist to me.

I'm happen to be female. Yes, this is a very real issue for some women. However, it is also a fall back for a lot of women. It is also a reality that many women find it far easier to fall back on cries of sexism rather than dispassionately evaluating their own responsibility for the situations they find themselves in. Unfortunately it's a behavior that undermines every woman who does deal with it legitimately.