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That's crap. He does have a choice, the choice is between a very good option and a very poor option (sort of like your situation!).
residentmom wrote: Precisely. There is ALWAYS a choice. Sometimes one of them sucks (quitting HIS dream job) but it is still a choice. Ask him if he is committed enough to put his career on hold for the next 4 years for you, and that discussion should point you in the right direction.
pathdr2b wrote: IMHO, if they're not already married or at the very least engaged by then, then this topic needs to move expeditiously from Beyone's "Single Ladies- Put a ring on it" to her song Irreplaceable's chorus "To da' left, To da' left"!!!!